Becoming a mother is a life-changing experience—one that can come unexpectedly or after years of waiting. Regardless of the circumstances, motherhood is always a profound blessing.
For many, the timing of parenthood is unpredictable. Some women become mothers in their teens, while others welcome children later in life. Unfortunately, some face challenges that prevent them from experiencing motherhood at all.
But one thing remains certain: there is no “right” way to become a parent. Every baby deserves to be celebrated, and every mother should be honored for the incredible journey of bringing life into the world.
Yet, some women, like Maria del Carmen Bousada de Lara from Cádiz, Spain, have faced criticism for their choices regarding motherhood.
Becoming the World’s Oldest Mother
In 2006, Maria shocked her family when she announced she was expecting twins—at the age of 66.
A retired store employee, she had sold her home to afford IVF treatment, reportedly deceiving doctors at a California fertility clinic by claiming she was 55. Maria firmly believed that individuals should have the freedom to choose when to start a family, rather than being dictated by societal norms.
Despite her conviction, her decision was met with backlash. Even her own relatives called her selfish. She admitted to hiding her pregnancy for a time, revealing that her family initially thought she was joking.
Nonetheless, Maria gave birth to two healthy boys, Christian and Pau, making history as the world’s oldest mother.
A Heartbreaking Turn of Events
Tragically, just six months after giving birth, Maria was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. She chose not to disclose the news to her children, believing they were too young to understand.
With her health rapidly declining, her family stepped in to care for the twins. Maria passed away in 2009, leaving behind her beloved sons after only a few short years together.
Her brother, Ricardo, reflected on her choice: “I think she did this too late in life… but now they are here, and we love these beautiful boys.”
Though Maria’s time with her children was brief, she remained unwavering in her belief that every woman should have the right to decide when to have children.
What do you think about Maria’s decision? Share your thoughts in the comments, and let’s continue the conversation.
Rest in peace, Maria.
